The highest voltage is on what looks like a suction cup on the side of
the picture tube. Shorting that to ground will get rid of the worst,
take a needle, solder a good piece of wire to it, tape the needle to a
dry stick, with the other end of the wire going to the chassis of the
monitor.
Slip the needle under the "suction cup" (it really isn't it's just a
rubber disk that well covers the actual high voltage contacts that insert
into a well in the picture tube). If you're lucky, there should be a
spark (I say lucky since it proves that you've properly made contact
with the contacts underneath, but if there's no spark, it could mean
the voltage has already dissipated, or that you didn't make proper
contact).